Dear Fellow Tribe Athlete,
My wife and I have been talking about you behind your back.
It’s true.
And what we have been talking about will be of interest to you if you’ve ever finished last in a CrossFit class.
I’ll tell you more in just a moment, but first …
Let’s say you are just getting started with CrossFit 101 and you are a little apprehensive and nervous about your first class.
Or, you’ve graduated from 101 and have been CrossFitting now for a few months.
Right off the bat, you know it isn’t going to be easy.
Just take a look around ….
- You see people running and pouring in sweat as they bolt in and out of the building in the middle of the summer heat.
- You witness young and old, male and female attempting strange lifts you’ve never even tried before.
- You hear ITF coaches barking out orders, making demands and correcting the form of those in the class.
- Suddenly, you wonder what you’ve gotten yourself into.
Gone are the lazy days of the casual walk on a treadmill at your local gym, with your headsets on, as you listen in on the news or sports on the TV.
It’s “goodbye” to a mild pump in your biceps with a set of isolation dumbbell curls.
Spin class suddenly seems like a comforting environment.
It’s all been replaced with a good dose of fear and trembling.
But you’ve been smart about it all.
When you first heard of CrossFit and Iron Tribe Fitness, you did your research.
You made a phone call, went to our website, maybe downloaded our free report … or maybe you just walked in a made a personal visit.
Most likely, you heard about us through a friend or saw an ad in Black and White or About Town.
Then the day came when you made that leap of faith, and you joined.
You felt you were ready for a change …, and you were!
And while you were a little nervous, you were excited about getting started to!
Then on your first day of CrossFit 101, you went through your base line WOD.
That’s the day reality hit you like a cold slap in the face.
Without warning you realized how out of condition you really were.
Half way through the WOD, you began huffing and puffing and feeling like you were going to blow the house down.
Your lungs were burning and your legs started filling with lactic acid.
You even wondered if you could finish the WOD.
That was bad enough, but nothing could have prepared you for what happened next.
Out of your whole class …
You came in dead last.
That’s when you experienced the greatest pain of your day … the sting of humiliation.
Humiliation … it’s an awful word, isn’t it?
It’s just so visceral … like a sucker punch in the gut when you least expect it.
That’s because at some point in our lives, we’ve all experienced humiliations on some level.
Needless to say, we never want to experience it again!
But there you were, feeling it again.
Trust me, I know how you feel, because, well, you see – I know because I’ve been the last one to finish.
A lot of times.
So has my wife, Melody.
And together, we’ve been talking about you … behind your back.
We’ve been talking about what you have felt, (and may still be feeling) and what you’ve been going through.
That’s why together, we want to bring you a word of encouragement today.
She and I want to have a heart-felt conversation with you, best we can in this blog – simply because we know how you feel … when others in your family life, work life and social life have no clue.
There’s nothing quite like feeling like no one understands, or worse, no one cares.
And there is nothing like feeling alone either.
But listen: We want to offer you something incredibly valuable.
We want to offer you hope and understanding.
There are 5 things we’d like you to understand and take away from this blog:
The first thing we’d like you to understand is …
You are not the only one who has ever finished last.
Nope. Far from it.
Consider this; every week, ITF offers 44 classes to our athletes.
Now, let that sink in for just a moment, and process that tidbit of info.
44 classes every week, means that 44 people have to finish last.
The second thing we want you to understand is …
It’s perfectly normal for you to hate being last.
As much as it may not seem like it, that negative feeling can actually be a positive motivator.
It motivates you to get better fast.
It’s true, finishing last could help you improve faster than any other single variable.
Trust me, nobody wants to be last. Nobody.
Women (and some men too) tell us all the time that they didn’t know they were so competitive, and it took CrossFit to bring it out of them.
Self discovery is a wonderful thing.
The third thing we want you to understand is …
Being the last one to finish won’t last forever.
You will get better, stronger, and faster.
You will move large loads long distances faster, and faster as your conditioning gets better.
The beautiful thing about CrossFit is …
CrossFit grows with you!
As you get better … you get better.
Some of those same CrossFit 101‘ers, who were last in the beginning, are now fire-breathers.
And some, like myself, still finish last when thrown into a class of young, athletic and highly competitive athletes.
Yep. I still finish last at times.
Which brings us to the forth thing we want you to understand ….
What is all of this really about, anyway?
When it comes right down to it, I doubt you joined ITF to “not finish last.”
Not finishing last is NOT why you joined this incredible community.
No. You have a much higher reason for becoming an ITF athlete.
Could that reason be (like myself), that you are determined to be strong and healthy as you can be as you age, so you can be vibrant and playful with your grand-buddies?
Or maybe it is to fit better in your clothes … or maybe you are about to get married … or you just got divorced … or you needed to lose weight for health reasons … or any number of other great reasons.
The point is, we don’t want you to lose sight of why you are really here.
Finally, we have one last thing we want you to understand ….
The day you don’t finish last is the day you have a new responsibility in the ITF community.
You now have a “high calling” placed upon your shoulders.
What is that exactly?
Let me answer that by telling you a quick story.
One day, during his first CrossFit 101 class, a new ITF athlete named Josh Pawlik did something very impressive in my eyes.
During his very first class, he finishes close to the top … maybe even finished first …, but he was far from being finished … he ran out the door and back down the street … to encourage – get this – the last person to finish!
He runs beside her the whole way, talking, encouraging, and helping her through the last portion of the run until she finishes her WOD.
Listen up: The day you are no longer finishing last in your WODs is the day you become the encourager to someone who is feeling the very same way you did.
Helping someone else is your reward for finishing before them.
That’s the way life should work … and that’s your call as an ITF athlete.
I hope this helps, and I hope you’ve received a bit of encouragemnet in the process.
I’d love to hear your comments and your stories.
Please tell me all about them in the comments below.













